From My perspective, a good sub is willing to give herself completely to her Master in mind, body & soul. she knows that her Master will give her what she needs most in order to make her feel complete and give her a real sense of purpose.
collared_whore is My sub and I instructed her to create a blog here so all can read and comment on her postings. It is My intention that she uses her time here wisely and creatively so W/we both continue to grow in O/our D/s relationship.
So, back to the question of what makes a good submissive slut? I know what has made My slut so special and worthy of My time & effort. Now I encourage you, whether a sub, Dom(me) or Master to answer that question from Y/your perspective.
I look forward to reading your comments.


Comments

  • SeanRenaud said Jul 2, 2007...
    You pretty much nailed it, it's the ability to trust completely that they will be taken care of and to obey largely without question.  I do so hate the capitalization/lowercase crap though.
  • sweet_rose said Jul 10, 2007...
    I think what makes a submissive is a good Dominant. Without that she has no place to grow. A Dominant man needs to be in charge of Himself and His life. I personally wouldn't take a Dominant with whom had no control over His own life. Why would I bother, my submission is something that needs to be handle like a delicate flower. Once that flower has blossomed.... watch out. That's when the beauty come through. ~ smiles~
  • MissMimi said Jul 10, 2007...
    rose hit on what I was going to ask you.  You obviously have definite ideas about what makes a good sub, but what makes a good dominant? Thank you Sean, for saving me the trouble.  That particular practice is silly.   
  • collared_whore's_Master said Jul 13, 2007...
    You are very welcome.
  • collared_whore's_Master said Jul 13, 2007...
    A good Master or Dom understands his sub, accepts her with all of her faults and is non-judgmental as to her wants, needs & desires. Above all, a good Master or Dom ensures the safety of his sub. Additionally, He should be nurturing, a good teacher, patient, loving, creative, open-minded, firm, strong both physically & mentally, giving, caring and disciplined.  He needs to control any situation that might arise during play and expect the unexpected in order to maintain safety. He needs to be able to "go with the flow" and recognize what is & what is not working during play. He needs to understand when a sub is in head space and be able to allow her that release. Of course, aftercare is important especially after trying something new or after an intense scene. If a Master or Dom truly loves & cherishes his sub and wants her to become "complete", He will do anything in His power for her to realize that. Not only will she become an obedient & devoted sub, but it will have a powerful, positive residual effect in her vanilla life.  
  • MissMimi said Jul 13, 2007...
    Thank you.  I appreciate your answering my question in such a thoughtful manner.
  • sweet_rose said Jul 13, 2007...
    exactly.....collared_whore's_Master....~smiles~
  • HisPet19 said Apr 7, 2008...
    i found this blog through collared_whore's blogs.  by the way, thanks for having her write...we all enjoy her writings.  i think that creativity is also another wonderful trait for a dominant to have.  as far as a sub goes...i could add an open-mind.  i had a great time reading this blog and the comments of others...thank you A/all!
  • Discipline54 said Jul 12, 2008...
    CWM,     I was referred to this site by my Submissive, and have found your ideas interesting.  I wonder how, one year later, your ideas on this issue have developed, and would be interested in opening a dialog with you.       Your submissive's writings have enabled me to see, from a submissive's point, the impact and effect I have, on my own submissive.  Thank you for allowing her to share her thoughts on this site.  It is appreciated.     Here's hoping that you and your Sub have found your peace again.  A submissive such as yours, (and mine) are the rarest of women.  I know, because I have one.   Discipline
  • Owner_Charles said Jul 22, 2008...
      What makes a good submissive slut........       First it takes a submissive, she may have been born that way or from changes in early childhood. The basis has always been there, some realized this, some fight it and some push it off as a bad dream. But I believe It is deep within them and they have a desire to be what they are.     A slaves submissiveness is a great gift bestowed and should be considered a prize possession to any Master.      What makes a good submissive a slut, my friend, lover? she does, and with some help from a good Master.  She should without question disagree with capitalization/lowercase is crap for it's very much needed in her life. MHO.       What makes a good Master.............. How many of the following can you answer yes to               Are you a good person at heart               Are you have a dominating personality               Can you be honest with your slave as well as yourself               Are you a caring person               Can you teach others Can You Learn yourself.                Can you bare some of the pain  (very small amount, grin) of what you may have to administer                Do you have a sense of humour               Can you spare time at the drop of a dime when you have no time to spare               Can you exercise control, think before you act, but act immediately to certain situations,               Do have respect for all others               Are you willing to take responsibility for another's life, and take responsibility for your own as well                              Do you feel secure about yourself                Do you always in life, try to do what's right               Are you nurturing, considerate, show empathy and sympathy               Are you a person of honour with the respect of others               Will you spend the time to bring them down with care               Are you willing to read from other Master, as well as essays from other slaves, your own slave should keep a journal of her most inner thoughts, one would do well to read them from time to time.    My views are based on the fact I'm an Owner 24/7            Respectfully, Lord Charles                             
  • his_slut said Apr 4, 2010...
    i have myself a master who has tried many times to tell me he cares for me. you remind me of him in your post about missing your c_w. He always says he misses me though will not be pushed on the subject. I just want to be a good slut and need help for I have many insecurities and need to serve  him better.   i beg you for your help and that of your c_w if you do allow or she is willing
  • Brother_John said Apr 13, 2010...
    I would just add that a good submissive slut is not just willing to give herself completely, but enthusiastic about it. Enthusiasm and gratitude are priceless virtues.
  • kittenthatroars said Oct 3, 2010...
    I was told to read this by a Dominant......I have been chatting with HIM and I enjoy the chats. I agree with everything ALL have written on here. And I am also pleased to have read what Lord Charles has written. I believe since the age of 7 I have had such thoughts of submitting and serving. It is who I am. And I wish that one day soon, I will find MY one. And I will be given the opportunity to please and serve HIM the way I wish,know,want,need,desire and yess even crave to serve. I am happy HE had me read this.....I truly am. Sincerely,Kittenthatroars
  • Hollywood2.0 said Oct 27, 2010...
    I want to thank everyone who has posted on here. its really helped in my search for making myself into a better sub. I am currently not owned but i want to make sure that when my day may come to serve a dom that i would be a good one. And this blog area has really helped. Thank you all Hollywood2.0
  • NewbieSub said Feb 6, 2011...
    Thanks for this blog. I met a Dom whom I am hopelessly drawn to. For the first time in my life, I am actually excited about submitting to someone else. I've always (and successfully) portrayed the strong and independent type, but inside I'm such a little girl. There was always a part of me that wished I could find someone whom I could be myself with... someone I could surrender myself to, someone I could please and not feel bad or guilty about doing so, and someone who could penetrate my guarded demeanor without me feeling paranoid about losing control. I asked him to train me, and he has accepted. I realize that the road is long, but we are both committed. It's a great feeling.

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